Gay Men's Dating Guide

languages

of love

To keep a relationship going, learn to speak

the five languages of love. You and your

man may speak in different tongues when it

comes to feeling loved.

Quality time You’re a quality-time person if you value eye contact,

meaningful conversations and shared activities.

Receiving gifts You may enjoy giving and receiving small tokens of

love. Flowers, bracelets, a gym membership card: these are symbols

of love to you.

Words of affection Sweet nothings are something to you. You

thrive on encouragement and compliments.

Physical touch You like hugging, holding hands, kissing and being

in physical proximity with your partner. Touching makes you feel

loved and connected.

Acts of service You gain pleasure from doing things for your

partner, such as washing the dishes after dinner. Chores aren’t acts of

obligation for you, but a service borne out of love.

What language do you and your partner speak? Find out by asking

him directly. In return, tell him what makes you feel special. Speaking

in the right language will make your man want to love you back in the

way you prefer. Love begets love!

Well, these aren’t my words!

I got this stuff from a download on Fridae. It’s a Singaporean gaydating guide.

http://www.oogachaga.com/gaymendatingguide

What I love about it is that it’s simple, visual and easy to read. And it puts into words things that I have felt intuitively but never articulated.

My husband almost never tells me he loves me. But I never ever feel unloved because he shows his love by doing things. He’s an ‘Acts of Service’ lover. I’m a ‘words of affection’ lover. We’re both ‘touchers’ and cuddle and snuggle all the time.

This is a great gay guide. Whether you’re single or in a relationship I think oogachaga are doing great work to conceive and design this thing and Fridae, as ever, are doing great work to promote it.